“But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”
1 Tim 2:12
Satan misused God’s Words to speak death right from the beginning.
Words of Scripture can be still be used to speak LIFE or to speak DEATH.
This passage in Timothy (esp 1 Tim 2:11-15) is sometimes misused to speak DEATH to women and that is not God’s intention.
Even churches often miss the truth of what the spirit says.
“He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches.” (Rev 2-3 over and over)
I personally tried to live by a very strict literal interpretation of a plain english translation of verse 12. I would completely keep my mouth closed at any church meeting where business or decisions were being discussed- even though my church allowed women to participate in congregational business. I wanted desperately to be obedient and pleasing to God. Deep down inside, I really felt that God preferred HIS sons and this verse reflected HIS preference 
Then I started a healing process and began to be in touch with how precious and beloved I am to HIM. So, I had to change the distorted lenses throught which I was seeing God’s Word. Over and over in the course of several years, I returned to this section of Paul’s letter to Timothy trying to discern its meaning with my NEW understanding that it is not meant to demean, disrespect, or put down women!!!
My GOD is NOT LIKE THAT!
And nothing in HIS WORD will do that!
If I am understanding a passage as a put down of women, the problem is with my understanding, not with God’s Word! Here are three ways of taking the passage of 1 Timothy 2 which are consistent with God’s loving character and HIS honor and respect for HIS daughters:
1. Think about church history-
how women were sidelined by the hierarchy, and sometimes excoriated. The passage can be taken as a prophetic proclamation about the church… that some day woman will be saved/restored/made whole in a reversal of the fall’s consequences (“he shall rule over you”). She will be restored to her status as a co-heir with Christ, restored to her queenly, ruling position BESIDE Adam rather than being the mistress/subordinate/underling to Adam’s “master-hood”
2. Think about marriage-
I personally was guilty of “husband idolatry”. I put him on the throne and I was an obedient servant, while he micromanaged and controlled down to trivial detail. My desire was for my husband (to please him, to satisfy him) and he ruled over me. The passage can be taken as a PROMISE for the marriage of ANY CHRISTIAN WOMAN- that she will be saved/restored/made whole in a reversal of the fall’s consequences (“he shall rule over you”) back to her status as a co-heir with Christ, back to her queenly, ruling position of the Garden-BESIDE Adam- rather than being the mistress/subordinate/underling to Adam’s “master-hood”. Could such restoration for her be conditional upon her remaining with her husband?? Notice “if THEY continue in faithfulness…” (1 Tim 2:15) This interpretation would speak quite firmly and with HOPE to the Christian woman contemplating divorce from a husband who is sinning against her in various ways.
3. Think about what the words meant to Paul and Timothy-
for which analysis, I defer to Cheryl Schatz whom I providentially “met” (online) Click here to read her meticulously careful analysis of the entire book of 1 Tim and thorough exegesis of the plausible historical meaning of the passage to the original recipients. .
And here is another sound exegetical resource if you prefer a video: this message is taught by John Schoenheit on 1 Tim 2:11: “Free Indeed”
The End
of the reader’s digest version.
Here is a link to a fruitful discussion about the passage (based on paragraph 344 in Katharine Bushnell’s book “God’s Word to Women”:
“she shall be saved through the child-bearing” (YLT)
I see two styles of interpreting 1 Tim 2:11-15 which I perceive as lacking:
-treating 1 Tim 2:11-15 as “merely” historical which I perceive as diminishing God’s Word
-treating 1 Tim 2:11-15 as a “putdown” of women which I perceive as diminishing God’s character.
Here is a link to an essay which avoids both of these pitfalls 
Leading Him Up the Garden Path: Further Thoughts on 1 Timothy 2:11-15
ETA: Here is my own effort which also avoids the aforementioned pitfalls and draws on “the whole counsel of God” Developing a Reading of 1 Timothy 2:11-15 using Paul’s metaphors.
I rambled much before I was able to distill out what I posted above. I have some posts which contain my rambling:
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