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Index to Selected Posts

Ephesians 5

• The Double BOND!

DEVOTIONAL SELECTIONS:

• in Mary Magdelene’s sandals…
• submit as to the Lord
• “The Curse” of Genesis 3? GOOD NEWS! God never CURSED humanity at the Fall!
• Circumcision of the Heart
• Whoever confesses his love BY EVERYTHING HE DOES…
• Mary Meditations
• suffering
• “works of the flesh”
• Reversing the Fall
• Am I faithful with “a little”?
• 1 Tim 2:11-15- Promise of RESTORATION!
• “I labor in birth until Christ be formed in you“
• SIN that leads to LIFE- HOW CAN THIS BE????
• The mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God
• Shalom!

Authority:

• How much authority did Sarah have? ~~~~YOU ARE HER DAUGHTERS!
• Etymology of the word “authority”
• Am I faithful with “a little”?
• “To offer to domineer over the conscience is to assault the citadel of heaven.”
• Husband Head
• Headship and Bodyship
• The Obligatory Sex Doctrine- Part 1
• The Obligatory Sex Doctrine- Part 2

Submission:

• “Wives [Subject] to Their Own Husbands in Everything”
• Ephesians 5:24Love and Respect?  Eph. 5:33
• Colossians 3:18- the only case where “wives submit” is IMPERATIVE!
• “Submitting” is a Participle
• submit yourselves to every authority instituted among men
• Submission is REST…
• Jesus Role Models Submission
• Unilateral Submission
• submission and abuse
• submitting to abuse is not good for a husband!
• Submission is a qualification for Spiritual Leadership
• Wives Submit to Your Husbands

Biblical Word Studies:

• “Keeper of the Home” – OIKOUROS
• “Head of the Household”- OIKEDESPOTEO.
• Respect in Marriage (Greek Word Study)
• hesed and submission
• “ezer”- help MEET
• “oikouros”- KEEPER of the home
• “authenteo”, anger, malice, clamour
• ONE WORD from the Bible changed my life! “oikodespot..”
• “teshuqua“- desire: “Jesus, can You be my husband?”
• DESIRE of “your desire shall be for your husband”
• “authentein” of 1 Timothy 2:12
• “lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God” 2 Tim 3:4

Other Bible Studies:

• “The elder women… that they may teach the young women” Titus 2:3-5
• Ananias and Sapphira: “Agreement” unto Death
• Implications of “unequally yoked” teaching
• How to “love life and see good days”
• Song of Songs- approval of the “harem” is NOT romantic!
• The Rise of Abuse in the Last Days is Prophesied: 2 Tim 3:1-6

• Sarah Series- Introduction
  • Sarah Series #1: “even as Sara obeyed Abraham calling him lord”
  • Sarah Series #2: Sarai means “contentious”
  • Sarah Series #3: YOU are her DAUGHTERS!
  • Sarah Series #4: “you are Sarah’s daughters IF you…”
  • Sarah Series #5: the authority of daughters of Sarah
  • Sarah Series #6: The Egalitarian Marriage of a True Patriarch
  • Sarah Series #7: On the use of submission in 1 Peter

Excellent!

• Submission and Service - based on John 13.12-15; Eph.5.21-25; 6.1-9
• Clips from “The Centerfold Syndrome” and introducing Pastor Ed who is preaching the Truth
• How to Heal from Adultery and Other Serious Marital Sins
• Healing a Broken Marriage From Adultery
• “Sarah was a strong woman. And Abraham LIKED that.”
• Marital Submission and the Bible
• Emotional and Verbal Abuse Up Close
• 1 Corinthians 11 – online articles
• The mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God

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Index to blog “Pages”

Where a page has sub-pages (the indented links), I suggest reading the main page first followed by the sub-pages. Enjoy!

Beautiful Symmetry

• 1 Peter 2-3
• Ephesians 5

About Me: Charis

Help MEET

I Tim 2

Obey?

• “as Sara obeyed Abraham”

Ruler

Submission

Titus 2

• “Keepers”
• sober/discreet/self-controlled

What if he is Abusive

 

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Signs of power and control issues. Is Buddhist Tiger more Christian than the christians? State of our Unions Hormonal Contraceptives Cause MicroAbortions Radical Pro-Abortion Feminism and Hyper-Submissive Quiver Full: Two Sides of the Same Coin Redux Radical Pro-Abortion Feminism and Hyper-Submissive Quiver Full: Two Sides of the Same Coin “from the start, God’s A-Team was male and female” Jesus’ Response to Conflict and Abuse: Applications to Marriage OIKEDESPOTEO- “Head of the Household” Determination, No Agreement with Lies Photo of one of our Septuplets :) “being subject to one another in fear of Christ” Part 2 “being subject to one another in fear of Christ” Part 1 She is Playing no “role”! She “IS SUBJECT”! Wild at Heart? Knights and Damsels? 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The Unselfishness Of God wives … enjoined to live in ‘fear’ of (the wrath of) their husbands Irresistible Submission: of devils to apostles and wives to husbands Hupotasso in the Passive Voice: A Wife’s Submission is descriptive rather than prescriptive Ananias and Sapphira Quiver Full FTR: A geeky Greek conversation with Suzanne on the passive voice of wifely submission in Eph 5:24 The Obligatory Sex Doctrine- Part 2 “It wasn’t like, boring, married couple sex…. ” says one of Tiger Woods’ hookers “the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman [is] man, and the head of Christ [is] God” Headship and Bodyship The Obligatory Sex Doctrine- Part 1 Mr. Mom Year of Jubilee Eph 5:33 “wife that she fear [her] husband” Cialis? Bah Humbug! Prayer Request Friends On the Journey “The Good Wife” The Naked Truth “There are only two states of being: submission to God… or…” How to respond to un-worthy behavior? “Submitting” is a Participle How to Heal from Adultery and Other Serious Marital Sins “The Not Quite Happy Ending” I Pahked the Cah in the Hahvahd Yahd (Parked the Car in the Harvard Yard) Does 1 Peter 3 teach “an authority designated to husbands that gives them a role akin to a master”? “Sarah was a strong woman. And Abraham LIKED that.” Away for a Few Days.. “characterized by an unsubmitted will” “subdue the earth” Therapeutic Rejection Those Aren’t Fighting Words, Dear Choose How about a Christian Wife Going on Strike? 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Handle With Care Unconditional Submission to a Disobedient-to-the-Word Husband HPK- a message for you Seeing Progress… Emphasis on “historical context” troubles me Jezebel Spirit? No. Casting off Sapphira Spirit! WHY is the divorce rate for atheists lower than that for evangelical Christians? Permission to “shove back” kephale submit yourselves to every authority instituted among men On Wives Turning to the Law for Relief Submission not to be confused with Obedience Ephesians 5:21 “Submitting yourselves one to another…” On Power Being Equalized The mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God God and Peter Advise the WIFE of a DISOBEDIENT HUSBAND Processing the Pain :( Surgery Today at 2:30 EST Proverbs 31 Woman I have a dream… Could it happen in 2009? May I drink, Lord? Christmas and Alcohol WHY don’t you go to church anymore? Christmas Carol Theology of WHY Jesus came? Oh I wish I were An Oscar Meyer Weiner… Historical view of women… Submission Illustrated The nature, the design of a woman… Is God Mean? #8 God does NOT judge us based on our “sins” Submission and Service Is God Mean? #7 Christians are NOT saved from… Prayer Request The Emperor has no Clothes! Who will teach me the TRUTH about God and the Bible? Is God Mean? #6 Atonement Theories A Ladies Man “authentein” of 1 Timothy 2:12 Is God Mean? #5 Atonement Theories And the winner is… Is God Mean? #4 Is God’s Wrath Poured Out on Jesus? Why is God so mean? #3 Was God’s WRATH poured on Jesus? fewer consequences for Eve than for Adam? Why is God so mean? #2 Why is God so mean? #1 Emmanuel- God With Us “vile affections” “Unto the woman God said…” Genesis 3:16 DESIRE of “your desire shall be for your husband” Genesis 3:16 “Leave and Cleave” UNIQUELY directed to HUSBANDS InSIGHTS into ezer. “I will make help/ezer suitable for him” “The Curse” of Genesis 3? GOOD NEWS! God never CURSED humanity at the Fall! Joint Authority ——>INDEX<—— Progress: bragging on my hubby… The masculinization of the church Women in High Places Disrespect of women runs deep the man wants to be alone Why did my children turn out so good? Will God move the mountain? Thank You “Sanctified” Sexual Excess Preached from the Pulpit When “equality” of women is a code word for “same” My Questions? Jesus vs. Religion un”church”ed and unashamed” Joyfully un”churched” #2 Joyfully UN”church”ed :) “She saved my life, And she didn’t do it by doing the submissive-Christian-woman thing.” LOVE & RESPECT: Book review by Joel Davisson “I’m not too big on religion” Jesus said… CONTROL! Put your hope and trust where? under His wings… They’ll know we are Christians by our LOVE? Who is Missing from the Picture? If I should die…. I renounce Tithing! Unchurched: I repent from my “church idolatry”! Autumn I am willing, Lord… The End of Christendom Spiritual Formation of the Sheep 1 Peter’s powerful message to modern Christian wives The wise man built his house upon the Rock Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity “there is no call for revival found anywhere in Scripture” says Graham Cooke SKUNK House Refugee GLORY? Penis Envy A Proverbs 31 Woman… Love and Respect: the J & K way… Lectio Divina Is pornography the moral equivalent of adultery? Making a Paradigm Shift Todd and Sarah Palin. God, you are so funny sometimes! Todd Palin and Todd Bentley Sarah Palin vs. Isaiah 3:12 Heads Up: “Who’s in Charge? Or, Who Cares?” Kudos for Sarah Palin- 1,2,3 DITTOS!!! Sarah Palin is HOT! 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Groothuis: my reflections Feeling God Dear Shonnah and Todd Bentley, “My sheep hear My voice… no one shall snatch them out of My hands” Vacation was fun… Money, Worry, Trusting God A “manly” Wife marriage- inferno- beast hates harlot and burns her with fire More on harlotry within ‘christian’ marriage “BE NOT DISPLEASED… whatever Sarah says to you, do as she tells you” “your desire shall be for your husband and he shall rule over you” “you are Sara’s daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear” the CALLING and the BLESSING SUPPORT “for the husband is the head of the wife” Southern Baptist Scholar Links Spouse Abuse to Wives’ Refusal to Submit to Their Husbands sex, sex, sex, sex, sex- Is it really ALL about SEX???? 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Roots of and Deliverance from Domestic Violence Travailing over these men… will we birth “men of exceptional holiness and devotion”? Are YOU “a contentious wife”? A Husband’s Submission Danger! UNbiblical Wedding Vows :( Darkness is not my Friend… I know, I know… Barbequing Sacred Cows #2 CONTROL Clergy Responses to Domestic Violence WHO’S THE BOSS? Power, Love, and a Sound Mind Who’s Deceived? Who’s Rebellious? Barbequing Sacred Cows Today Bitter Venting… ONE WORD from the Bible CHANGED MY LIFE! “oikosdespotes”- OYE! WHAT a DESPOT! Body Image- “extreme Mom makeover”? Porn Castrates: Impotent Man, Omnipotent GOD “Don’t Develop BITTERNESS” by Joel & Kathy Davisson submission and abuse A Blue Dress and Other Blessings FREE! :) to help you “Spring Ahead” in your marriage in Mary Magdelene’s sandals… Prodigal Song of Songs- approval of the “harem” is NOT romantic! “I labor in birth until Christ be formed in you“ Whoever confesses his love BY EVERYTHING HE DOES… because of a lack of grace and truth in some churches, Christians have had to go elsewhere to find healing… Response to Nancy Wilson’s “Submission Requires Courage”- Part 2 ezer- Help MEET, helper suitable, “ezer kenegdo”, companion, counterpart, comparable, fit, just right, etc… Brett wants to know “WHY are you exposing these SINS?” The “F-word” and the “S-word” (not the BAD ones!) What did you DO all day, anyway? Response to Nancy Wilson’s “Submission Requires Courage”- Part 1 What if being a SUBMISSIVE wife requires being a CONTENTIOUS wife? Contentious women, men, and people “The concerns of today’s ‘lazy’ wives” has gotten me thinking… Introducing a NEW page: “What if he is Abusive?” A man’s best friend? WARNING: –> –> DEADLY Snake Oil Formula <– <– Peddled as “marriage medicine” :<( “made manifest by the LIGHT”- Ephesians 5 “the particular loneliness”–> the gateway to something new the particular loneliness that comes from a loveless marriage… Winter “Love”- feelings would be nice, but some say they are unnecessary God’s Protection in the Furnace… Sexual Sin within Christian Marriage #2 1 Tim 2:11-15- Promise of RESTORATION! What if Eve had not Followed Adam OUT of the Garden? Love in the manner that Christ serves, without hostility or guile. Sexual Sin within Christian Marriage #1 1 Tim 2 speaks to the porn problem Where does the “submitted wife” go when… ? Nancy and Jeff brokenhearted children —> broken intimacy suffering Will I Speak LIFE or death? Sowing and Reaping: Good and Bad Ways of Judging Grace AND Truth The English word ‘submission’ does such a poor job of interpreting upotasso or upotassomenoi “works of the flesh” hesed and submission Parameters of Submission What is “help” and “submission”? submitting to abuse is not good for a husband Etymology of the word “authority” Am I faithful with “a little”? Jesus Role Models Submission When Daddy verbally abuses the children, how can a Christian wife and Mommy respond? Disclaimer… DANGER!!! Bad wedding vows—->suffering and abuse! I renounced unbiblical wedding vows! Heirs Together Submission is a qualification for Spiritual Leadership Biblical Grounds for Divorce Husband Head Oikouros Song of Solomon- a story of love, seduction, betrayal, paying the price, pain, choices Head/Body Metaphor of Marriage Reversing the Fall KEEPER of the home—> authority to PROTECT the household and separate from an abusive husband Obeying unsubmissively and Submitting disobediently Mary Meditations Fulfilling the CALL to be “keeper” and “ezer” How much authority did Sarah have? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ YOU ARE HER DAUGHTERS! In those days, it was NOT expected that a wife would follow her husband Snow Porn Use Epidemic among Christian Men Women protectors of their home Unilateral Submission Pornography :( What kind of person was Sarah? Sarai Abraham and Sarah- mutuality “as Sarah obeyed Abraham” – Sarah’s role model of submission “Keeper” How to “love life and see good days” “authenteo”, anger, malice, clamour 1 Tim 2 notes 1 Tim 2:11-15 (Revelations) Circumcision of the Heart Implications of “unequally yoked” teaching for marriage? Hello world! Submission and Equality “To offer to domineer over the conscience is to assault the citadel of heaven.” " man should be ruler over his own household." <—-> Esther’s authority 20 Inheritance: Restored in Christ Authority "I will make him an help meet for him" The Slave Who Fans the King Biblically, Does Submission Equal Obedience? Jesus, can You be my husband? Respect in Marriage (Greek Word Study)