Comments for A Wife's Submission

Comment on Sexual Sin in Christian Marriage- renouncing Harlotry by jackie

jackie — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:58:41 +0000

dear ellen,i dnt no wat type of help u hv had wit dealing wit ur past marital issues bt it obviouusly wrkd 4 u yet doesnt mk u an xpert.i am a 28 yr ol married woman of 5 an sometimes feel like a prostitute 2 my husband.i gt up at 6 am gt 5 kids ready 4 school then i gt his son redy 2.i then fix his coffee an his son breakfast. i gt dresd an go 2 school.come hm put my books up,go 2 grocery store.come home fix lunch an clean up.kids come home from school and love help an attend 2 their needs.help wit their homewk,baths,read the bible an pray wit them.go take me a shower an then hv to sleep wit him.now wat u havnt noticd is #1 he dont help period#2 he only pees for himslf bathes and feeds himself i brng hinm his plate an drink an put it up,etc.this doesnt nclude washing 4 eight ppl an etc.did i mention he doesnt punch a time clock.yet i stil hav sex because it isnt lovemakin at all wenevr he wants an if i dont hes mean 2 me an the kids an want gv me any money for the things needed. i dnt need 2 hear ur pity u so cald had on charis im here standin up 4 us women on here who r feeln an goin thru dis an hv othr women an men try 2 tel us we rong an dnt no da real deal.an judge us.did u feel so strong 2 mk al these coments wile ur hubby was alive an u were goin thru it or did u hv ur growth spurt wen he died?

Comment on Are YOU “a contentious wife”? by jackie

jackie — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:28:08 +0000

dear david,i sympathized wit u 4 a few moments til i read on.i understan da emotional trouble u may b xperiencn but dat givs u no rite 2 make fun of her physicaly. u speak so much of bein a christian wel wat do u think Jesus thot of u calln her fat an talkn bout her luks.if ur a devotd loving husband dat dnt sound lik it 2 me.an if u mak these coments 2 her or othr peopl shes aware of it an dat doesnt help.i fail 2 bleve dat uv ben completly innocent n dis marriage bcuz u seem emotionally abusive.hav u tried saying sweethaeart lets read the bible 2gthr, lets pray 2gthr,lets go 2 church 2gthr?if she doesnt respond the way youd like continue pray and keep her before the alter.you men complain alot yet u r in da minority because men have brought an continu 2 bring woman thru this an u hv happened 2 walk upon a woman that has dished ya’l the plate ya’l have been feeding us.liv,lern,an luv!

Comment on Implications of “unequally yoked” teaching for marriage? by jackie

jackie — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:08:08 +0000

wel i am unevenly yokd an it causes issues n my mariage for me an him.he luks at thngs carnally an even wn i try 2 xplain it to him spiritualy it causes a rift.he doesnt respect my christian values an gets mad wn i wnt compromise on wat he wants all the time.examples?making fun of people,being upset 4evr wit people who hv rongd me,he wnt pray or read the bible wit me.he goes to servifce wn he gets an urge an that aint often.i spent 10.00 on a bilbe cover one time an he made a smart comment yet if i wudve spnt it wprdly he wudnt hv complaind.i thnk bcus we r goin n diffrnt directions its causn everythng 2 b haywire.i hv previously stated i do luv him an wnt my marriage to be happy jus dnt no wat 2 mk of it.i dnt want a divorce an i find myself goosestepn alot 2 do everythng rite 4 fear that hes going 2 search elsewhere again.an its causn so much stress cuz in my mind i no if he cheats i wont leave which wil mean he wil most likely do dis agin an he knows it. which gives him the leverage 2 lean.i jus am frustratd tired an watevr else.nutn i evr do is rite long enuf 4 me 2 jus breath.

Comment on Husband Head by jackie

jackie — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 22:40:42 +0000

dear annoyed, yea!!!!!!im rejoicing in your situation because my sister i am in the same place ypu are and for sometime have thought i was alone.me and my husband just got married oct.30.i no how it feels to be living in sin and wanting to be married and having a holy union but it aint happening fast enuf.then u go to service and feel the giult and condemnation because you know youre not right,then you feel mad at your him because he seems fine with it.but you arent because its seperating you from God.an you feel like hes causing you to compromise your christianity.you then get married only to feel or realize that hes not the spiritual head of your family as he should be also.the relief that came from fornication was beautiful only to be hurt by not having someone who cares as much abot a relationship with God as you do.i guess unevenly yoked feeling?dont wory bout the rambling i do it 2 and i feel bad sometimes thinking im talking about him but i feel like im doing it to get advice that could help our marriage not slandering or defaming his character.

Comment on Help MEET by jackie

jackie — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 21:41:54 +0000

how do you be a helpmeet to a husband thatborders the word helpmeet between wife and slave.as long as i do as he likes our marriage is fine in his eyes but if i have a difference of opinion im annoying him.my opinion is not needed or warranted unless he feels it is.if hes having a good day we are but if hes not then its hell on two feet.its up and down thru out the day.i love him just dont undrerstand him.i want to be his helpmeet but alot of times im just a worker and being his wife is an occuption. taking a firm but reasonable stance with him doesnt help he just ignores what i have to say